“In it were all kinds of animals and reptiles and birds of the air. And there came a voice to him: “Rise, Peter; kill and eat.” But Peter said, “By no means, Lord; for I have never eaten anything that is common or unclean.” And the voice came to him again a second time, “What God has made clean, do not call common.” Acts 10:12-15
There is a new church coming to your town. I wonder if you will attend.
It is a church where:
Children run up and down the aisles;
Your race is the minority;
People talk at inappropriate times during the service;
Some are struggling with drug and alcohol addiction;
An ashtray is outside for the smokers;
The worship service has some hip-hop;
A few believe that deodorant is optional;
The police are aware of a few of the attendees;
The guys have longer hair than the girls;
Some are struggling with pornography addiction;
Some unwed teens are pregnant;
Not all have homes to return to;
A few effeminate men and masculine women attend;
Occasionally, feet are placed on the furniture;
The underwear of several young men can be seen;
Some, struggling with cursing, fail here;
The local tattoo artist references many attendees in his portfolio;
There is no doxology.
Is this the type of church that you seek? I know the reasons why these are not the attributes that appeal to my family and me. I don’t see these attributes in the vision statements of most churches. I wonder how much of our religious Church culture creates the same results as the Jewish culture of Peter’s time.
“And he (Peter) said to them, “You yourselves know how unlawful it is for a Jew to associate with or to visit anyone of another nation, but God has shown me that I should not call any person common or unclean.” Acts 10:28
Our Christian doctrines don’t have specific laws about who we can associate with or visit like the Jews did. However, consider the end results. Isn’t the typical church on a Sunday morning almost as homogenous as any Synagogue in Jerusalem during Peter’s time?
Mine is.
It is as if the welcome mats at our Sunday gatherings have an unwritten expectation of what we consider clean and acceptable. The unclean don’t seem to get past it.
Are there folks out in your community who you would prefer not to associate with on Sunday morning?
Are there some who you consider too rough?
Are there some who are simply uncouth?
Are there some who you have determined are unclean and should not be associated with?
Peter was sent to the very people he believed he should not associate with. God showed him that he should not call any person common or unclean. I have never heard anyone in the mainstream of Christian community call any group of people unclean. However, do our actions confess to a heart that has judged another person as unfit to be associated with?
To my shame, I think that my actions do. I don’t think that I have actively pursued a course of pious dissociation but I look at the reality of my life. I rarely associate with anyone who does not look like me. I wonder what a disinterested third-party would infer of my beliefs based on an evaluation of the people with whom I associate.
I think that we all need to be very careful about letting our social preferences creep into our definitions of acceptable. In Galatians 1:11-14, we are told that Peter stumbled due to this mindset. He withdrew from the Gentiles. Those same people whom God had said were clean he withdrew from because of social pressures. We don’t have any written rules or laws about who we can associate. However, we sure seem to withdraw from those who make us uncomfortable.
Brothers and sisters, let’s evaluate our hearts to make sure that the reason for the uniformity of our associates is not due to some attitude of withdrawal that has the effect of keeping the uncomfortable away. Remember, those who make us uncomfortable need a Savior just as much as you and I. I am not sure how to immediately apply this to my life. Maybe, we are to be like Peter, when the Lord sent the unclean to him. Peter opened the door and was welcoming. Maybe, we should prepare our hearts and make sure we display a welcoming attitude for all those who expect to be rejected.
PRAYER: Lord, I don’t know if the reason for the similarity of all my friends is due to an inappropriate attitude or simply due to where you have me. Either way, examine my heart, Lord. Don’t allow me to be unwelcoming to those whom you bring into my life. Lord, I want to be like Peter and go to those who you send to me regardless of social pressures or personal preference. Father, may your Church be the most welcoming place in the world for those who are truly seeking you. Amen