“This charge I entrust to you, Timothy, my child, in accordance with the prophecies previously made about you, that by them you may wage the good warfare, holding faith and a good conscience. By rejecting this, some have made shipwreck of their faith…” 1 Timothy 1:18-19
We have experienced a prolonged inversion that has kept the temperature from surpassing 10 degrees F. Then a storm blew through our area. I had hoped that the storm-front would provide a little relief from cold temperatures by acting as an atmospheric blender. Unfortunately, the storm was like a fondant that encrusted our world in ice.
That made my commute into work an adventure.
I realized that the roads were bad when my greeting to the county highway was a car trunk awkwardly peeking out from the opposite shoulder of the road. I am still questioning the wisdom of my decision not to turn around at that moment and head back to the safety of my home. However, I did not turn around. Rather, I put my pickup in four-wheel drive and cautiously pressed forward into a white landscape of questionable decision-making.
The road had my full attention on this morning; very excessive depression of the accelerator told me that I was traveling on ice. There was no day-dreaming, working on memory verses, changing radio stations, or checking texts (which I would never do anyway). The road would periodically check if I was paying attention by giving my nerves a little jolt. The road would give a slight tug on the steering wheel, followed by a strange floating sensation, followed by another slight jerk as the tires grab what little traction was available.
I don’t like that feeling. I don’t like what that immediate shot of adrenaline does to me. It is an electric pulse down the spine as your muscles all try to contract in an instant. It makes you momentarily wonder whether your flight response may have gone too far.
It was amazing how quickly my foot would unconsciously lift off of the accelerator. I didn’t even have to think about it. I was equally amazed at the unconscious resistance to placing my foot on the brake or jerking my arms to compensate for a slight misdirection. I have learned from experience that either of those actions will immediately put me in a place I don’t want to be – the ditch. It took all my experience of driving on icy roads to make it into work yesterday. I made it but I don’t think it was the smartest decision that I could have made. When you think about the consequences, it just wasn’t worth it.
This experience of creeping along dangerously slick roadways made me contemplate the equally dangerous and slick paths of our spiritual lives. Most of the time, there is a decision before venturing down a particular path. We will stand at a cross-roads and make a conscious decision to proceed with an activity or a relationship that has inherent dangers to our souls.

dentro al fosso – into the ditch (Photo credit: Uberto)
Is it wise to proceed down those roads?
Do you have the experience to navigate those slick pathways without putting your faith in the ditch?
Those are good questions to ask before you proceed. I remember my first couple of years out of high school. I was working full-time in a cabinet shop and going to a community college in the evenings. It was my intention to take all my under division classes at the community college before transferring to the university so I needed to take some humanities classes. At the time, my cousin was taking a philosophy class. I could see that those classes represented a slippery road for me. I decided that I was not ready for that experience and took some humanities classes where I felt I had better footing.
Subsequently, I did take several philosophy classes as part of my education and I am glad that I waited. From my experience, the philosophy departments of the universities that I attended were dominated by professors who were more evangelists for their secular humanist beliefs than professors, but that is not limited to philosophy departments. I have sat through classes in philosophy, biology, geology, and even economics where the professors were proselytizing their beliefs in a direct assault on my faith with a blatantly one-sided presentation – people of faith are ignorant.
Those were some slippery roads for me. However, it was an experience that made my faith stronger. I am very glad I took those classes but the timing needed to be right. I needed my faith to be sufficiently mature so that my faith grew on those slick roads rather than put me in the ditch. I did not have that maturity when I first got out of high school. I praise God that He showed that to me at the time.
I have watched many a person put their faith in the ditch on similar slippery roads. I have had theological discussions with folks who are tied into intellectual knots. I wonder what slippery road caused their faith to land in a ditch without them even knowing it. I have known brothers and sisters in Christ who have had a slippery road result in great detours in their sanctification.
I think that it happens more than we realize but it is not inevitable.
My experience is that pride and foolishness are the main reasons for the times that I have found my vehicle and my faith in a ditch. Timothy was told to hold onto his faith. There are many folks who are not holding onto their faith and I have been one of them. I have over-estimated my maturity and I have under-valued my faith. For too many, the implications to their faith is not even a consideration in their decision-making:
What is taking this job going to do for my faith?
What is going to this school going to do for my faith?
What is this relationship going to do for my faith?
What is this hobby going to do for my faith?
When we send our kids off, what are we allowing their young faith to be subjected to?
The reality is that many don’t want their decisions to weigh the implications on their faith or their kids’ faith because their “good conscience” is already pushing them against it. How many times have you pushed forward with something that you knew wasn’t good for you or your kids? I have made decisions against my own “good conscience” where I was not valuing my faith, and it resulted in having to be dug out of a ditch. It never works out well.
A part of navigating the treacherous roads of this life is assessing the ones you even need to be on. All of the roads don’t have to be traveled. Like a good general who picks his battles, the wise followers of Christ will carefully pick the roads they choose to travel. There will be some roads we travel where we don’t have a choice but even then there are decisions we can make that will make those roads safer to our souls. We need to humbly evaluate the conditions when we come to those forks in our spiritual paths. We need to accurately assess our own experience and maturity before we blindly push forward onto roads that we are likely to lose hold of our most valuable treasure – the sanctification of our faith. It is OK to say, “I am not ready for that.” It is wise to build a support team around yourself to keep you on the narrow road or to pull you back if you start sliding away.
Those decisions require you to acknowledge that you have not arrived, which is humility. We all could use more humility. Humility would have kept me from unnecessarily traveling dangerous roads to make it into work. Humility would have kept me from taking paths that have rocked my faith. Humility acknowledges who we are and the importance of our faith. We must maintain the mindset of holding onto our faith, which makes our faith a player in all of our decision-making.
There is nothing in this world that we need to fear but that doesn’t mean we should act foolishly. Safe travels my friends.
PRAYER: Lord, thank you for protecting me from my own bad decision. Thank you for placing my feet back on a sure foundation after I have so casually treated my faith. Father, you are my all in all. Give me wisdom and discernment to assess the roads ahead. May the holding onto my faith be always at the forefront of my mind. Father, keep me from making a shipwreck of my faith; keep me from putting my faith in the ditch. Amen
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